Everything Is Not About You

Your life is not just about you. It’s also about the people in your life. Whether you are a father, business owner, husband, wife, or grandfather, the things you do or say affect the people around you. Your words and actions can hurt just as much as punching someone in the face does, especially when used against the people we love, care for, or admire in life. People process what you say and do, both positive and negative, all the time, and it shapes their perspective and relationship with you. Our words and actions mirror what is in our hearts to the people we interact with. 

When hurting, we can be very hurtful with our words, actions, and how we treat people, especially when unaware of it. To some of us, when we are hurting, we want other people to hurt too, and unknowingly or knowingly, we do things that cause them to hurt and feel miserable like we do. Negativity doesn’t make our lives better, and it doesn’t just impact the person we are speaking to It impacts us too. Your words and actions can build or destroy. They can give life or drain it. They can make someone feel loved or unloved. Choosing the right words and actions can help us be more positive and change our lives and that of others. Building others and creating a positive impact starts with ourselves. You can not give out to the world what you don’t possess.

Join the conversation with your host, Tommy, as he shares why everything is not just about you but also about other people in your life. With social media and the competition out there, it’s very easy for people to feel inadequate or less than others. Being a positive force in such a time is a great way to put your life in perspective and help others do the same. When you spread positivity to others, it creates a ripple effect for everyone.

Tune in! 

 

During this episode, you will learn about:

[00:00] Episode intro and what’s in for you today

[01:39] Everything is not always about you

[02:23] Tommy’s experience and how it affected his life  

[03:04] Whatever you do and say affects people in your life

[04:34] Building people up with positive words and actions

[05:35] Everything begins with you, fix yourself first 

[07:26] Cultivating positivity in a social media dominated world  

[08:35] Get out there and share your positivity, life is too short

[09:29] Ending the show and call to action

Notable Quotes

• “Whatever you do and say affects people in your life.”
• “Words, when used wrongly, can hurt the people we love and care for.”
• “Positive actions and words build people and help you get to the next level.”
• “Choose your words wisely; the things you say might affect people for the rest of their life.”
• “Positive reinforcement helps others grow.”
• “When you are spreading positivity, it creates a ripple effect, and it’s the same with negativity.”

 

Connect With Me

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tommygucciardo/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tommygucciardo

Twitter: https://twitter.com/tommygucciardo

Linktr. ee: https://linktr.ee/tommygucciardo

YouTube: https://youtube.com/@tommygucciardo

 

Please, DO ME A FAVOR. For this message to grow and get out to more people to help them change their mindset is by LIKING, COMMENTING, SUBSCRIBING, and SHARING.